One of the most important aspect of people's life that not just waste time but can lead to many problems including psychological for girls especially and academically to both sexes is the so called "Boyfriend , Girlfriend issue" . People are becoming obsessed with this idea since the first second they enter college ," I must have a girl friend I have waited all my life to enter college and have the right to choose a girl to be my girl friend and maybe he will say I must have a girl that makes me feel good about myself and that I can share my problems with and maybe if she is good enough we can continue till marriage " and for the girl she says "well maybe I can get out of college with some cool guy that can be my charming prince and all that " well this kind of issue puts both people under a lot of stress and is not just time consuming it is a time drainage . For some high class stylish people this is nonsense but for many normal people this is true.
First of all due to the inclined kind of behavior guys are having these days and the bad attitude and the feeling that he can use a girl and somehow act on her that he likes her and move on to the next one , this kind of guys is huge and exist everywhere so girls should take care , also you shouldn't not put this kind of subject on your mind all the time because believe it or not it will crack you down and makes you feel down under and think that you are unworthy and for guys you will say " Why I don't have a relationship with a girl , I must suck and have a bad personality that rejects people like a two same poles magnet " and for a girl she will say " Maybe I didn't look beautiful enough , maybe I didn't put the enough make up or maybe I didn't interact enough or maybe I didn't show that I am smart enough".
Why the hell would anyone exert that amount of effort and spend all this amount of time just to have a relationship ???!!! I know that the article is about how to manage your time effectively and I may have gotten off topic but I needed really to discuss this. If you are distend to a relationship then you will have a relationship , I ma not saying stop looking but don't let it take your time and mind and puts you under. Just think of how time you spend on this topic alone even thinking and you will understand what I am saying.
Next Step , you have to plan your day from the minute you wake up till you sleep and what I mean by planning is not getting a piece of paper and writing and this No No , you can never do that because we have many surprise during the day at college that can screw your plan and believe me on that . The idea is that you put a general plan for your day by planning your week , you see what days you have off , and what days you get late from college and which you get early and you do the following:-
Days off :- Dedicate them for studying the important difficult subjects and Hard assignments that need time to think and focus because you wake up freely and get your deserved time in sleeping and your mind is at ease and never ever start this day by facebook and twitter even for 10 minutes you will have troubles . Believe it or not your mind will be attached to them all day that you will have open tabs of them on your laptop all day shifting between studying and them
Early Days from college :- Dedicate them for light subjects or light assignments or doing projects if you are from engineering and maybe sometime finish some personal stuff because in late days traffic is really bad
Late days from college :- SLEEEEEEEEEEP and if necessary study for only 1-2 hours to be able to understand what you take next day.
Always keep an Early day from college to sports or social work or free relaxation listening to music , believe it or not your mind actually can use some rest ..
to be continued
First of all due to the inclined kind of behavior guys are having these days and the bad attitude and the feeling that he can use a girl and somehow act on her that he likes her and move on to the next one , this kind of guys is huge and exist everywhere so girls should take care , also you shouldn't not put this kind of subject on your mind all the time because believe it or not it will crack you down and makes you feel down under and think that you are unworthy and for guys you will say " Why I don't have a relationship with a girl , I must suck and have a bad personality that rejects people like a two same poles magnet " and for a girl she will say " Maybe I didn't look beautiful enough , maybe I didn't put the enough make up or maybe I didn't interact enough or maybe I didn't show that I am smart enough".
Why the hell would anyone exert that amount of effort and spend all this amount of time just to have a relationship ???!!! I know that the article is about how to manage your time effectively and I may have gotten off topic but I needed really to discuss this. If you are distend to a relationship then you will have a relationship , I ma not saying stop looking but don't let it take your time and mind and puts you under. Just think of how time you spend on this topic alone even thinking and you will understand what I am saying.
Next Step , you have to plan your day from the minute you wake up till you sleep and what I mean by planning is not getting a piece of paper and writing and this No No , you can never do that because we have many surprise during the day at college that can screw your plan and believe me on that . The idea is that you put a general plan for your day by planning your week , you see what days you have off , and what days you get late from college and which you get early and you do the following:-
Days off :- Dedicate them for studying the important difficult subjects and Hard assignments that need time to think and focus because you wake up freely and get your deserved time in sleeping and your mind is at ease and never ever start this day by facebook and twitter even for 10 minutes you will have troubles . Believe it or not your mind will be attached to them all day that you will have open tabs of them on your laptop all day shifting between studying and them
Early Days from college :- Dedicate them for light subjects or light assignments or doing projects if you are from engineering and maybe sometime finish some personal stuff because in late days traffic is really bad
Late days from college :- SLEEEEEEEEEEP and if necessary study for only 1-2 hours to be able to understand what you take next day.
Always keep an Early day from college to sports or social work or free relaxation listening to music , believe it or not your mind actually can use some rest ..
to be continued
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